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- I am a father of two girls who everyday works to regain control of my kingdom. Is this even possible in a divadom? This blog is dedicated to chronicling my experiences and challenges in being a father as well as providing some food for thought to other dads. History of this Blog - I started writing this blog full time in January 2008 prior to my second daughters' birth. Since then, the blog has exponentially grown and I have continued to find my groove through both reading and networking with other bloggers as well as writing on a myriad of varying topics. Outside of home I am a Student Affairs Professional who has been working in the field of College Administration now for 12 years with extensive experience in precollege planning, admission, advising, and other areas.
Dads in the Limelight ( #limelightdads ) – Torkona Exon ( @Torkona3 ) #dadchat
Our 231st Dad in the Limelight is Torkona Exon. I want to thank Torkona for being a part of this series. It has been great getting connected with him and now sharing him with all of you.
1) Tell me about yourself, (as well as how you are in the limelight for my readers knowledge)
I am a rare beast in Australia, I own a Dad blog. There really are only a handful of us. I am a working dad, bringing in the bucks in the day and playing with my son at night. With my blog, I throw in a few things about gaming, jokes, gift ideas for dads, my strange views, that’s me in a nutshell.. (no this is me in a nutshell: Argh! I’m in a nutshell!).
Oh yes, and I say strange things that usually only I find funny!
2) Tell me about your family
My family consists of 4. My wife, myself, my 1 year old boy and my smelly dog that licks things and is well overdue for leaving the house and getting a job.
3) What has been the largest challenge you have had in being a father?
When my child stopped breathing on me. It is easily the most dreadful moment any parent could ever conceive. The days/weeks afterwards of tests and overnight hospital stays to why he had trouble breathing is included in this challenge. How I got through it I will always have trouble explaining, but the one thing I now have is a growing baby that now breathes normally like any other. He was found to have a condition that he simply grew out of.
4) What advice would you give to other fathers?
If you are away in the day, always be the one to put your children to sleep. It’s a time you’ll always cherish throughout the years, even during the screams.
5) Seeing that you (or your position) are in the limelight, how have you come to balance parenthood and outside life? If you are currently not in the limelight per se, please still answer this in regards to how you balance parenthood and outside life.
Well, to me, Parenthood and outside life are the same thing. There is no difference. I am the same parent behind closed doors and in front of them. Sure my wife and I might organize a baby sitter whilst we have a few drinks with friends or have a dinner date, but I’d never separate myself from being a parent now to what life used to be like before being one.
6) What have you learned from the fathers that you have interacted with?
Wow, this is a great question. I honestly don’t know if I have learned anything. That sounds bad, but the time spent with other dads we’re mainly whining about how annoying our wives are or talking about that local sporting team we support. Wow, that’s even worse hehehe. I’m not saying I know everything or that no other fathers could ever teach me anything. I guess it’s just being wrapped up in my own kid to notice other fathers raising their children different to mine. Probably once my boy is older, as he is still very young, I would suggest my learning from other fathers would increase dramatically. It’s a good point and something I think I should improve upon.
7) What else would you share regarding your experiences as a father thus far?
What this father that works during the day waits for is that massive smile on their kid’s face when he returns home from work. I know this is probably obvious, but nothing gets me down when I see my boy smile. After having the worst day possible, my kid will make me wonder “why worry?” as soon as I step through that front door.
What have been the most memorable experiences that you have had thus far as a parent?
The moment my boy was born. I remember looking down on him only a few minutes old and even though he couldn’t speak a word, my boy looked back up at me and mouthed the words “wow”. I’ll never forget it. Wow yourself little champ
If you have any questions for Torkona, please leave a comment here and I will make sure that he gets them so that he may be able to respond!

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1) Tell me about yourself, (as well as how you are in the limelight for my readers knowledge)
awhata3) What has been the largest challenge you have had in being a father?
5. Seeing that you (or your position) are in the limelight, how have you come to balance parenthood and outside life? If you are currently not in the limelight per se, please still answer this in regards to how you balance parenthood and outside life.
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Though of course I had heard the phrase that it takes a village to raise a child before, I never really knew what it meant until my daughter Lily was born on August 4, 2005. When she was born, our family and friends surrounded us, and I could see the village that surrounded us. I was so happy then, and I had no idea what was to come.

1) Tell me about yourself, (as well as how you are in the limelight for my readers knowledge)
4) What advice would you give to other fathers?
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